Innovative tutorial sessions give teen girls hands-on experience
By Laura Stepp Sessions
Washington Post Staff Writer
The scene looks like any other tutoring session for a bright, focused suburban high school girl. The mentor doles out advice while the young charge carefully takes notes.
But this particular session isn’t about algebra or history; it’s all about sex. And in the bedroom of her parents house in a leafy Montgomery County suburb, 17-year-old Emily Neiman is getting real-time, hands-on schooling on the finer points of what conservatives used to call “carnal knowledge.”
Neiman’s parents have hired The School for Sex, a tutoring service designed to educate upwardly-mobile, fast-track teenage girls in sexual techniques and etiquette.
The service, which has been approved by The Academy of Sexual Sciences, has become the rage amongst upper middle class families.
According to University of Virginia psychiatrist Anita H. Clayton, an expert on women’s sexuality and mental health, many women have mediocre sex lives and are in need of some sort help.
“Women can change their level of satisfaction,” she has said. “We need to change the belief systems that are holding us back.”
Changing the belief system
The School for Sex represents a bold, innovative way for young women to change that belief system.
Watching a School lesson in action, it’s easy to see why it has become such a success story.
Up in her bedroom, the raven-haired Neiman watches raptly as a pair of tutors engages in “a standard heterosexual sex act” on her bed, which still boasts a Disney bedspread she had as a kid. Soon, Neiman is being coached in the ways of oral sex and being coaxed into participating.
“It’s always difficult the first time,” offers sexual health educator Stephanie Towers, the female half of the couple. “Just try it and if it doesn’t work for you we’ll stop.”
Sex coaches for girls are now more important than ever. According to Clayton, 43 percent of women are unhappy with their sex lives, “which doesn’t seem bad unless you believe, as I do, that the other 57 percent were lying.” Read more…
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