By Carolyn Hax
Washington Post Staff Writer
Thursday, May 3, 2007; Page C04

Washington Post columnist Carolyn Hax receives many more questions than she can answer in that paper’s space so she’s decided to answer some here at Big Head DC. Take it away Carolyn!

Hi Carolyn,

I am a 23-year-old women who has been dating a man for a year. I recently learned he cheated on me and am wondering whether to leave. The problem is, I really am in love with him – we have everything in common and have even discussed children. What should I do?

Girl With a Problem

Dear GWAP,

When a man cheats so early on in a relationship it means he’s not up to snuff and usually needs some good old fashioned kicking to the curb. You have to think, why would he do this to you? What is his problem? Is this something you’ll want to live with forever? It’s worth thinking about.

Hi Carolyn,

I am a 23-year-old man who has been dating a woman for a year. I recently learned she cheated on me and am wondering whether to leave. The problem is, I really am in love with her – we have everything in common and have even discussed children. What should I do?

Boy With a Problem

Dear BWAP,

When a woman cheats so early on in a relationship it means you’re not up to snuff and need some good old fashioned kicking to the curb. You have to think, what did you do to make her want to do this to you? What is your problem? Is this something you think she’ll want to live with forever? It’s worth thinking about.